LavenderLounge.nl

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Frequently Asked Questions

Q. What on my profile will be visible in the chatroom on my profile? And do I need to fill in everything?
A. Username, birthdate, your badges. The rest of what you signed up with is kept private. We do encourage you to fill in a min of username, birthdate where you are located email, and password. Our admins need to do their job and this minimal information will give them a rough idea of who they're dealing with.

Not permitted on or with your profile:

Names like mum, Dad, photographer, teenager, teacher, professor, police, cop, lolita, dealer, or nazi names; it is not allowed to be put these words in your username and or in your profile, Of course not in other languages, this attracts the wrong people.

Create multiple profiles that can be characterized as false, misleading, abusive, or offensive.

Using profiles and/or photos that do not belong to you. Only use your own photo and make sure that no others are recognizable on it.

Placing a number between 9 and 18 after your name. Names such as Jenny10, Sandra30, or Lisa45 are therefore not allowed. Be creative it's just something we don't want to see.

Minimum age for the site is 18+,
Q. How do I get a VIP account? Does it cost money?
A. All accounts have full options there is no VIP account nor will you be asked to pay for something.

LavenderLounfe staff will never ask you for any payments to buy credits, tokens, or pay for some other service.

Not permitted :

To use misleading (fake) names to lure people to a pay website. Or to ask them for payment data like paypall, bank accounts, credit card number.

Never give bank data, paypall, bank account numbers credit card info to any one. If you need help just ask one of the admins or type admin in the chat room and report the word admin or report the person that asked you and there will be a swift response of our room moderators or admins.
Q. What do I do when I'm banned?
A. Email to <a href="mailto:mail@lllm.nl">mail us</a>
Subject: Banned and explain why you banned
and why we should lift it.
We will reply within 48 hours with our
decision.

Instant ban for:

Address topics that do not belong on this chat, such as sex with children, animal sex, extreme, perverse, incest, family. This counts for images of those subjects to. Subjects that are taboo.

Luring or coercing individuals into clubs or pay sites.

Recruiting chatters to work in the sex industry as an escort or prostitute. Searching for other personnel is also not allowed in the chat box.
Q. Do I have to do what the room moderator or admin tells me to?
We think it is important that everyone can use our website and the associated chat options in a pleasant way. That is why we have drawn up a number of rules and guidelines that apply to everyone. This means rules and guidelines made by the room moderators and/or admins are mandatory for all!

We have the right to hand over the log files of all chats to the police when requested / when we have reason to do so.

Illegal practices, including child pornography, and animal porn, are reported by us to the police, including the data of the person concerned, including the active IP address.
Q. What do I do when I get bullied?
A. Our advice when you get bullied or discriminated against is to report the person right away so our room moderators or admins can remove that person from the site permanently. We do not tolerate anything of that kind and are there to protect you in any way, shape, or form.

Chatting is in all cases entirely at your own risk. We are therefore not liable in any form whatsoever. Are you not following the rules and guidelines? Then this can cause you to be partially or completely removed. Do you continue to oppose the rules and guidelines that we apply and do you cross the boundaries? This can result in a total blockage of our website(s)
Q. How save is the security on LLLM.nl
A. In addition to our room moderators and admins who are watching over you we have the FLO AI (artificial intelligence) system <a nearly impossible to send pictures of weapons, drugs, hidden harmful Q-codes, and Offensive text in pictures or videos, or any illegal material, discrimination.

Of course, you are agreeing to our privacy and terms once you sign up, but we will do all in our power to protect you from harm or get in contact with offensive material.

However, we are not responsible for you. It's also up to you and how you treat people yourself.
Q. Does an admin have the right to monitor me?
Q. To be short yes! To keep our chatrooms girls only. Yes, some girls are butch, there are Trans men identifying as girls, but were experienced enough to handle that without getting offensive. Trans men identifying as girls will be asked to stay a girl and not wave the word cock around all the time or post dick pics. It's unwanted behavior once you ignore the rules your account will be deleted. Just to remind you, your a guest to all the girls here respecting you for your new found sexuality so respect our sexuaity to.

In case of trans F to M id will be asked to verify. If you are a girl but identify as non binary we wont hold you in a awkward possition you will be allowed we think our lesbian or bisexual girls won't object to your happyness and you are just as welcome.

However, if you are male and identify as non-binary we politely ask you to also respect us and we will guide you to the nearest LHGBTQ+ male gay website. This will stay for girls only.
Q. I'm looking for... what are the rules on personal privacy?
Publicly blaming or defaming other chatters. So don't use login names, such as '(name) is a money slut' or say '(name) is a scammer'. Once a fake is found she will be added to the fake list so Flo will learn from it and they will be banned. Leave it up to the admins to decide.
To be clear no other member can tell or has more to say than you. NO ONE. Only the room moderators, room admins, and admins uphold the rules on this website and make sure they are followed.

Trying to find out contact details and/or private details of chatters, for example through questions such as 'Who knows… is also not allowed. Respect each other be nice to each other you wouldn't like it if it were you there talking about.
Is this website just in English?
A. No this website can come in any language you request. Currently English and Dutch. If you have Arabic just let the admin tech (look for the tech badge on the admins' profile) give the chosen language and they will install it for you.

However... We only speak English on the website in the rooms. In Holland, we have a diversity of people and to be understandable to all English is the main language on our website. If you speak any other language you'll get a warning. If it continues you will be removed.

The rooms are mixed English/Dutch where Dutch is allowed, this is for the people who can't/have learned English well enough. If you have problems with Dutch just look into your browser settings (3 dots right corner) and go to languages/translate/pic your language. Now the Dutch and English will be auto-translated into your chosen language.
Who are the owner, admins, and mods?
To answer your questions Ilana owner of <a h
I work during the day for <a
where you can hire Admins or Account managers. This site is my own project where I can set up the way I want to. Being in 4 chatrooms at the same time during the day or more I wanted a place for myself /girlfriends and new girls to meet. Yes during the day I get paid for the other chatrooms I do this for myself it's not all about the money. I'm 18 years old and have 3 years of experience being an Admin.
For more questions just ask me.